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Edition 4 * September 6, 2000 
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The Crone's Commandments by MERCY
"Aunt Susan, when you come back from New York, are you gonna bring back
a girl to live with you?" my almost 6 year old niece-of-choice asked.It had been a lazy Sunday afternoon, I was doing some needlework while
she *played* the guitar and we sang songs. It had taken a while for her to
realize that my ex was not going to be coming back. I had no idea how much it would affect her or how much processing the two of us would do in the coming
months when the announcement had been made. I knew that she was more
comfortable with the idea, but I had no clue that she was already planning for the future. "Honey, I am certainly not planning on it. And, if I should ever meet
someone that I want to share space with, I will tell you first. But, you know,
the next time I want it to be better, and I need to think of ways to do that." She was quiet for awhile, and I thought the discussion was over. Then
suddenly she said, "Write this down". As I got a paper and pencil, she stated here is what you do first
thing....and she began to give me a list of things to do to insure future happiness
with a new partner... 1. Make her something. Everybody likes a present, and if you make it,
they know you REALLY like them! 2. Get your picture taken together, and hang it on the wall. If you
forget you have a partner, you will see the picture and remember. 3. If she comes to live with me and they are messy, give her a room to
be messy in, and a door that she can close. BUT, if I live with her, I am to
put my stuff up. (When I asked why I couldn't be messy and leave my stuff
out, she said *Cause you know how to put your stuff away!*) 4. You should have a group hug everyday (which would involve more than
me and a gf..mebbe slip a cat in between I guess...but we used to do group hugs
with her in the middle) 5. You kiss/hug when you leave and come back. (Kiss/hug is a request
commonly said between the two of us...for example if she is outside playing at
her house and I arrive, she says it...we kiss and hug first thing...and when one of
us is leaving) 6. If I am sewing or cross stitching or something and the girl needs
something and she isn't hurt or crying, I can say, *May I finish this row*...but
I can't cheat and keep going. (ROFL) 7. Everyday you have to play for awhile, and you have to have *cuddle
time* and you have to scratch each other's back. 8. You both have to help with the work. 9. If I hear a song and it reminds me of someone who moved to AZ and
it makes me sad, I am just supposed to say *That song makes me sad, can we
listen to a different one.* *They* don't know Cathie and they don't want to* (LOL) 10. Talk nice. Don't call each other names. Even if you are teasing,
they might not know that and they would be sad. 11. Never say *stupid*. Say please and thank you and ask for
permission. 12. Don't yell. If she is angry or you are angry, be still for awhile
and don't throw a tantrum and no whining either. 13. If she wants to go to McDonald's and you want to go somewhere else,
take her to McDonald's and next time you get to pick. 14. If you go shopping, and she doesn't have any money, give her some
so she can get herself something too. 15. Be sure and say * I love you * and then say her name. And tell
her a lot. And last, but certainly not least.... 16. If you have to fart, and you think it will smell, go into another
room. I have to admit that she surprised me with some of her thoughts, but I
am really pleased to figure out that ALL relationships would be better with these
rules. Friends, lovers, relatives, ...all the people in our lives. So remember, say I love you, then say their name...and tell them a lot! Next time I see you all, I will be back from New York......highly
unlikely that there will be a new person in my house, but I bet there will be stories
to tell! ~~~~byeeeeeee! QUEER - MART By JUNOBE
Cindy sat in the snack bar of the local giant discount store drinking Coke and smoking Virginia Slims menthol. She had just returned a purchase, a very feminine dress that she had bought for half price the week before. Now, she needed the $22.50 that she had paid for the dress. "Pink-collar work and pink-collar pay really can't support my addiction to femme clothes even at the discount stores," she thought dismally. "Maybe it's my inner child that is addicted to cheap, frilly clothes that match and look cute. I've got to find a permanent job."
Just then, out of the corner of her eye, Cindy caught a glimpse of a lesbian. "Dyke watch!" she smiled to herself and perked up. "Umm, tall, big, brown hair, soft butch." Cindy tried not to stare. The dyke took long confident strides to the snack bar and bought popcorn and a Coke. Cindy took mental notes, "Dyke has on red vest that says she works here, tacky knit slacks with pockets bulging,("I hope she wears jeans when she's not working," Cindy thought quite cattily.) "Just my type," Cindy tried not to drool and continued, "Short dyke hair with a blond or gray streak at the left forehead."
By now, the dyke had walked around and sat down at a table quite close to Cindy. She had not joined her co-workers in the smoking section. "Alienated," Cindy mused. "Why? Allergic to cigarette smoke? Ostracized by her older co-workers?" Cindy said, "Shit! that older thought was a caution light. If it is older, straight women that makes the dyke keep her distance, I'm in trouble." Cindy was always falling for younger women. She put on her glasses casually and unobtrusively, she hoped, and tried to get a closer look at the dyke. "Probably 35 years old," she guessed, "two years older than my daughter." Cindy groaned. Her last two lovers had been the same age as her son and he was the youngest. "Ageist! you know you are being politically incorrect!" Cindy scolded herself and lit yet another cigarette. By now, the young lesbian, as Cindy had started thinking of her, was gathering up her drink and preparing to leave. As the young dyke walked away, Cindy wondered what kind of dyke-job she had in this store. "She probably stocks shelves with stuff from the warehouse," Cindy daydreamed, "Umm, maybe she drives a forklift. Quit stereotyping dykes!" Cindy reprimanded herself again. She finished her Menthol 100 and decided to look around the store.
"Never mind that I have no money, my lovely inner child, we can look around but not buy." Cindy consoled, "We can buy next time." She walked over and began sniffing the scented candles. They all smelled too strong. School supplies smelled good. Cindy had always liked the way newly-sharpened pencils and brand-new note books smelled, but nothing interesting caught her eye. "Nothing here I can't live without," Cindy muttered. She wandered over to the plus-size "women's" clothes. She gazed over the racks of clothing but nothing caught her eye enough to even pull it out and take a look. Then without being quite aware of how she had gotten there, Cindy was in the jewelry department when it caught her eye. A watch! Pink coral stones in the band caught her attention. Cindy cooed silently, "O-o-o-h-h, look at this watch, and it's on sale for $15.00. Cindy picked the watch up and looked at it closely. Set among the pink coral stones were little fake pearls, and two tiny gold-plated cupids pointed their arrows toward the face of the watch. Cindy knew she was in big trouble, "This will match so many of my clothes," she breathed. "You know you only have $22.00," the adult part of her countered. "I know," she groaned. Then, she got excited, "Oh I know! Maybe I could put it on lay away for about $2.00!" She laid the watch back carefully and glanced around for the Lay Away Window. She started wandering toward the back of the store, and then as usual she had to pee. "I'll ask the Lay Away Clerk where the rest room -- she got sidetracked by her quest for the appropriate feminist term -- uh, bath room, women's room, ladies' room. She could never bring herself to ask where the toilet was. At that moment, she saw the Lay Away window and went toward it in a big hurry, and then she stopped short. Behind the counter stood the young lesbian and Cindy was looking straight into her chest. Cindy's eyes were riveted on her name tag. Her name tag proclaimed that her name was Lisa, and Cindy was really flustered. She looked at the name tag and blurted out, "Can you tell me where the Lesbian's room is?" "Huh," the young woman replied looking astonished. "I mean the ladies' room," Cindy laughed and tried not to pee on herself. "Oh, the rest room is up by the snack bar," Lisa told her. "Thanks," Cindy replied, and beat a hasty retreat in that direction. Once seated safely in the stall, Cindy allowed herself to blush. "Shit! Now, I'll never get the watch or the young lesbian, Cindy sniveled while sitting on the toilet." She tried to get herself together, to put her clothes and her foolish blunder in order. She washed her hands and looked at herself in the mirror. She put an adult expression on her face and managed to walk out of the bathroom and the store with her head held high. Cindy headed across the parking lot toward the bus stop in the 95-degree heat. Then her inner-child popped up with an idea, "I know I'll come back in a few days and see if the watch is still here." Not to be disappointed her more assertive side asked, "And what about the young lesbian named Lisa?" "Okay, Okay," Cindy retorted, “I'll see if she's still here too!" And everyone smiled real big! Proud Parent? by WEAVRE
"Grandma!" my daughter exclaimed, "I might have my picture
in the newspaper!!""Really? Wow! How wonderful! What did you do?"
"I was right in the middle of the front of the flag in the Pride Parade this morning!" "A parade? How exciting! What parade?"
"The Pride Parade, Grandma! It was awesome! You should have been there!" As they went out the door. *** *** *** ***
*** *** "I had so much fun swimming at Grandma's house," my daughter
said, as my mother came to sit beside me on the couch when they came in the door. "I certainly hope her picture is *not* in the paper!" My mother exclaimed. "Why ever not?" I asked, all innocence.
"In the paper, beside the parade, was a story about a police officer who was arrested for DUI, and now he might lose his job. The community sets higher standards for police officers and teachers and such." "But I wasn't arrested for DUI. Michelle and I marched with
our children in the Pride Parade. There's a lot of support for it, actually, and it was very positive." "But I teach in the public school system! They wouldn't
approve if they saw my granddaughter in that. I'm sure they would fire me!" "Are you familiar with MAGY, Memphis Area Gay Youth, that
enjoys the support of that same public school system? And did you know that we have open, out, gay and lesbian teachers here?" "Of course, and we have two gay teachers at my school. But
they're discrete about it." (Michelle would ask me later, "What did she mean by
'discrete?' That they're not having sex in the hallway? Come on, if your mother knows they're gay, they're allllll
the way out!" And she was right.) "Mother, we're out, and comfortable, and Danica is very proud
of helping to carry the flag, in the very front, and I'd be thrilled if they ran that picture." "But don't you understand? That police officer, with the DUI,
might be fired! It's the exact same thing!" "A police officer who endangers people in violation of the law is shameful. Danica marching with us in the parade, is simply not." "I just hope they don't run that picture."
*sigh* "Well, the reporter listed everyone with Michelle's last name, which you won't admit to your friends we're using now. So no one's likely to put you on the spot, even if they do see the picture." "Oh, good! Then if they run it, and anyone sees, I can just
tell them it's not her, has nothing to do with me, never saw the child." "You could. You could do that. It's entirely your choice,
and if you choose to deny your granddaughter, that's your right. When your friends recognize her face, and then hear your reply, they'll understand that you are so ashamed of
your daughter's partnership with a woman, that you would lie to hide any connection to your own granddaughter. Of course, you could instead choose to say simply, 'Yes, that's her.' And they would understand that respected librarians
with doctorates may have gay or lesbian children, and that there's nothing at all wrong with that. They wouldn't hate
you for it, or take away your job. But you're right, it's your choice, and entirely up to you." "I just don't understand why you let them take her picture
in the first place." *sigh*
High Blood Pressure By HEXANGYL High blood pressure is often called "the silent
killer" because often there are no symptoms to indicate that a person has high blood pressure. When high blood pressure is not treated, it can lead to heart disease and strokes - the leading killers of men and women. Untreated, it can also affect the brain, eyes, kidneys, and cause serious problems in pregnancy.SYMPTOMS Severe cases of high blood pressure, also referred to
as hypertension, may be accompanied by warning symptoms such as: - headache - dizziness - fainting spells - ringing in the ears - nosebleeds However, most women have absolutely no symptoms at
all, so periodic blood pressure checks are very important so that early detection of hypertension be made. CAUSE In 95% of all cases of hypertension, no single obvious
cause is found. This is called essential hypertension. Causes other than oral contraceptives
and smoking are still being investigated, including diet, properties of the water supply, a person's size, stress, behavioral patterns, and heredity. DIAGNOSIS Blood pressure is described by 2 numbers. An example
is 120/72. The top number is called the systolic pressure and is the measurement of the force of blood in the arteries as the heart is pumping the blood out
into the body. The bottom number is the diastolic pressure or the blood in the arteries when the heart is filling with blood. Generally the systolic (top) pressure above 140 or the diastolic (bottom) pressure above 90 is considered a sign of hypertension or high blood pressure. Blood pressure varies with the time of day, activity
and stress. Only CONSISTENT elevation of blood pressure is considered hypertension. At least 3 elevated blood pressures taken days or weeks apart should be obtained before hypertension is diagnosed. NOTE: High blood pressure is a disease that increases a
women's risk for heart disease or stroke, just as often as it does for a man. Heart disease and strokes are the leading causes of death in women over 50. It is interesting to note that until just the last few years, very little research of these diseases included women. Also, in the last few years, medical scientists have discovered many differences in the way that men and women are treated for heart disease. For example, women are referred for coronary bypass surgery at a later stage of the disease than men are. This may account for their higher death rate. Among women who have had heart attacks, researchers have found that women had many more risk factors and suffered more chest pain before their heart attack than men, but are only half as likely to have had a cardiac catheterization to assess their heart disease. In light of these facts, it is essential that women
learn as much as possible about the risk factors, prevention and self-help treatment. In my next article I will address medical treatment and alternative treatment for high blood pressure.
Shrink On The Barbie by SHADY GROVE This columns focus is psychological and emotional health/well being. Individual, couple, family and community concerns will be addressed here. I am a licensed lesbian feminist therapist. I am writing this column under an assumed nickname for your comfort and mine. The information and suggestions provided here should not be taken as a substitute for in person therapy with a trained clinician in your area. I offer here my perspective, knowledge, and experience to be taken, accepted or rejected as is. I would like readers to submit topics of interest and questions you would like me to answer in the column. All questions will be answered with the author’s identity withheld unless you specify otherwise. Confidentiality will be respected. Please send your comments, suggestions, and questions to me at shrinkonbarbie@yahoo.com Emotional Bank Accounts We all have emotional bank accounts with people. We have them with our friends, parents, siblings, coworkers, extended family, and most critically our partners/lovers. Deposits and withdrawals are constantly being made back and forth. We assign value to the deposits and withdrawals. Some carry a lot of weight, others are of little consequence.In relationships people periodically make “bids” for their partner’s affection, humor, attention, or support. Partners either turn toward one another after these bids or they turn away. Turning towards is the foundation of emotional connection, passion, romance, and a good sex life. When we emotionally connect with our partners in positive ways our bank accounts grow. The state of our emotional bank accounts with our partners is directly related to how much appreciation and fondness we feel towards our mates. Our inclination and willingness to turn towards our partner in times of conflict and challenge is enhanced when our bank accounts are full of positives. Our ability to tolerant withdrawals is strengthened. A depleted emotional bank account is like living in a drought zone. There isn’t enough water to go around. Every withdrawal counts more. When I work with couples, a common issue is lack of connection and intimacy. There is dissatisfaction with the ratio of deposits to withdrawals. This seldom happens on purpose. Most people think of themselves as wanting to be reasonable and loving. Partners often ignore each other’s emotional needs due to lack of information and mindlessness. Ask yourself these questions: Do I know what constitutes a deposit into my partner’s emotional bank account? Do I know what constitutes a withdrawa? Do I know what deposits are of most value to her? Do I know what withdrawals carry the most sting for her? Does my partner know what constitutes a deposit or withdrawal in my emotional back account with her? If the answer is no…You two need to turn towards each other and start talking more!!
Easier said than done in a lot of cases. How and why we communicate so little or poorly with our partners is a problem in and of itself. Ironically deposits and withdrawals contribute favorably or unfavorably to our willingness, desire, and feelings of safety in turning towards and talking with our partners. But heck, who ever said doing a relationship was easy? Willingness is what I ask folks to cultivate with each other. Willingness to risk and go outside one’s comfort zone. Start with the positive. Some of the best research on the dynamics of lesbian/straight couples is coming out of the Seattle Family Institute. Their work has shown that a ratio of 5 positive/deposits to 1 negative/withdrawal is optimal for a stable and healthy relationship. It has also been shown that the everyday mundane routines are the nutrient broth for positive connection. Here is something to experiment with; Observe interactions. Notice deposits and withdrawals going on in the relationships around you. In your relationship pay attention and become aware of the deposits your partner makes or attempts to make. Turn towards her and tell her when she has made a deposit, point it out. Better yet, if you have the time, tell her why it is positive. Avoid focusing on the negatives/withdrawals.
Make a caring list. This is a list of things your partner can do that if done will result in; you feeling cared for, a positive/deposit. Post it on the fridge. Now she knows more about what she can do to show you she cares for you and is fond of you.
Remember it is unrealistic and irrational to expect or demand that your partner know what fills or drains your emotional bank account without you ever telling her how yours works. There will be more on this in future articles. For now, turn towards that wonderful woman in your life and connect.
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In Peace As Well As In War by FROGGIE
In April 1943, Eleanor Roosevelt wrote, "At all times, day by day, we have to
continue fighting for freedom of religion, freedom of speech, and freedom from
want – for these are things that must be gained in peace as well as in war.” True
to her word, after the end of World War II, she became one of the US delegates to
the United Nations, and the chairwoman of the draft commission for the Universal Declaration of Human Rights. And on December 10, 1948, she was in the Palais
de Chaillot, in Paris, participating in the United Nations General Assembly that
unanimously adopted the Declaration. Fifty years later, the Declaration is still not being enforced completely in any
country in the world. Fifty years later, human rights are still being violated all over
the planet. Fifty years later, human rights activists are still fighting "in peace as
well as in war," for the respect of their own rights and of the rights of their fellow
human beings. Some people see them as "sweet lunatics," or "philanthropists,"
especially if they happen to live in a so-called "First World" country. But human
rights activists are neither crazy nor selfless. Having been a human rights activist
during most of my life, I intend to demonstrate that the violations of human rights,
wherever they happen on the planet, have an impact on our daily lives, and
specifically that they have an enormous impact on the daily lives of American
citizens. I also intend to demonstrate that we, human beings, have the power, and
even the duty to promote global respect for human rights. The first step on the path of the defense of human rights is to understand as
clearly as possible what human rights are. For Malcolm X, "Human rights are
something you are born with. Human rights are your God-given rights. Human
rights are the rights recognized by all of the nations of this earth.” What is the
content of those "God-given" rights? According to the French jurist Karel Vasak,
there are "three generations of human rights." "Inspired by the three normative
themes of the French Revolution, they are: the first generation of civil and
political rights (liberté); the second generation of economic, social and cultural
rights (égalité); and the third generation of relatively newly called solidarity rights
(fraternité).” The Universal Declaration proclaims all three generations of human
rights. Articles two to twenty-one of the Declaration set forth the first generation of
human rights: The rights to life, liberty, and security of person; to freedom from arbitrary
arrest; to a fair trial; to be presumed innocent until proved guilty; to freedom
from interference with the privacy of one's home and correspondence; to
freedom of movement and residence; to asylum, nationality, and ownership
of property; to freedom of thought, conscience, religion, opinion, and
expression; to association, peaceful assembly, and participation in
government. In articles 22 to 27, the declaration also explicitly cites the rights, of the
second generation, " to social security, work, rest, and a standard of living
adequate for health and well-being; to education; and to participation in the
social life of one's community." And article 28 states, "Everyone is entitled to a
social and international order in which the rights and freedoms set forth in this
declaration can be fully realized," thus implicitly proclaiming, at least in part, the
rights of the third generation. The human rights defined by the Declaration are being violated on a daily
basis all over the earth. And each of these violations has a direct impact on the
lives of American people, since, as the British writer Thomas Hardy stated, "The
human race is one great network which quivers when one part is shaken, like a
spider's web when touched." What do companies like Nike, Disney, and Phillips-Van Heusen have in
common? They all import into the US goods produced for them by Third World
country contractors. These contractors want to offer their American partners the
best economic conditions, without losing any part of their own profit. Therefore,
they employ in their sweatshops workers whose human rights, more than
violated, are being completely denied. For example, on March 4, 1999, the National Labor Committee wrote, in a letter to Walt Disney company: The longstanding systematic violations of human and working rights at
factories in China working under contract with Disney include: excessive
forced overtime, up to 16 hours a day, seven days a week, amounting to
112-hour work weeks; pitifully low wages (…); no benefits; even being
shortchanged legal overtime premiums …; workers being housed in primitive, crowded dorms …; workers illegally forced to pay an "entrance
fee" to secure their job. At first sight, American people, although moved by the situation they are
being presented with, may think that the working conditions in overseas
sweatshops have no influence on their personal lives. But the existence of these
sweatshops and their utilization by major American companies endanger many American jobs. It also contributes to keeping American salaries low and to
exacerbating the ratio between American workers' average salary and the
average pay of company executives. According to Jeff Faux, president of the
Economic Policy Institute, this ratio has jumped from 34 times to 180 times in the
past twenty-three years. Just as overseas sweatshops have a negative influence on the economic
rights of American workers, sometimes the governmental use of American
tax-money has a negative influence on other people's human rights. The best
example of this kind of situation is the School of the Americas, also called, in South America, School of Assassins. The School of the Americas was founded in Panama in 1946 and moved to Fort Benning in 1984. During these years, it has trained almost 60,000 "military
elites" coming from dozens of countries in the Caribbean and South America. After receiving this training, dozens of those "elites" participated in military
coups against civilian governments in their own countries. The list of graduates
of the School includes some of the most notorious dictators, assassins and
torturers of South America, like Argentines Leopoldo Galtieri y Roberto Viola;
Panamanians Manuel Noriega and Omar Torrijos; the Peruvian, Juan Velasco
Alvarado; the Salvadoran Roberto d’Aubuisson; the Guatemalean Lima estrada;
the Ecuadorian, Guillermo Rodriguez; and the Bolivian, Hugo Banzer Suarez. “The Salvadoran soldiers cited by a United Nations Truth Commission for the
commando-style massacre of six Jesuit priests and their women co-workers had
just completed the SOA commando course.” In 1992, a report on the School by the American Department of Defense
concluded: "For record purposes, the Department of Defense should retain copy
of each of the seven manuals along with a copy of this report. All other copies of
the manuals and associated instructional materials, including computer disks,
lesson plans and "Project X" documents, should be destroyed." In 1995,
Representative Joseph Kennedy introduced a proposition of law (HR 2652) "to
close the United States Army School of the Americas and establish a United
States Academy for Democracy and Civil-Military Relations;" the law did not
pass. In 1998, a similar proposition was rejected in the House by 212 to 201 votes.
It was not until May 18, 2000 that the US House of Representatives voted, by a
214 to 204 margin, to close the School of the Americas. Unfortunately, they
approved, in the same vote, the Pentagon proposal to immediately open a clone,
called the Defense Institute for Hemispheric Security Cooperation, also located in
Fort Benning. According to recent Pentagon figures, the School of the Americas
used to cost the American taxpayers almost twenty million dollars a year.
Chances are the new Institute will cost at least the same yearly amount. Violations of human rights in any country of the world have an impact on the
daily life of citizens of other countries. Similarly, the violations of any American
citizen's human rights have an impact on the daily lives of his or her fellow
citizens. On March 3, 1991, some members of the Los Angeles Police Department
beat up an African-American man named Rodney King, violating his "right to life,
liberty and security of person." On April 29, 1992, a jury acquitted the policemen
who had assaulted King and thus violated his "right to an effective remedy by the
competent national tribunals for acts violating the fundamental rights granted him
by the constitution or by law." As a result of these violations, the rights of many
American citizens "to life, liberty and security of person," as well as their "right to
own property" were violated. In three days’ time, in Los Angeles alone, 38 people
were killed and more than 1200 were injured. In San Francisco, 1,400 people were
arrested. In Las Vegas, 200 people engaged in riots and started fires. In Seattle,
45 people were arrested, five were injured and firefighters responded to 28 fire
calls. In New York City, 80 people were arrested and several police officers were
injured. In Atlanta, 300 people were arrested and 57 were injured. Even when the violations are less visible and their consequences are less
violent, any violation of the human rights of any human being has repercussions
on the lives of many other people. When, as the National Census Bureau says it
happened in 1995, "21 percent of American children under age 18 [live] in families
with incomes below the poverty level," their "right to special care and
assistance" is definitely not being respected. The same report shows that their
poverty makes those children more likely to drop out of school and, for the girls,
to give birth to and live with a child. Therefore, the violation of those children's
human rights is very likely to have, in the future, an influence on American
taxpayers' lives. All over the planet, human rights are being violated on a daily basis, and the
real victim of this situation is mankind as a whole. As Daniel Cohn Bendit said in
Paris in May 1968, "We are all German Jews." But history proves that the power
to change this situation lies in our hands. On June 28, 1914, American suffragettes marched on the Capitol to demand
voting rights for American women. In 1919, the 19th Amendment to the US
Constitution was approved and sent to the states for ratification. On August 20,
1920, women's suffrage was proclaimed. In the 1960s, the civil rights movement mobilized America against racial
discrimination. In 1961, Charlayne Hunter-Gault desegregated the University of
Georgia. In 1963, Fanny Lou Hamer registered to vote in Mississippi and Martin
Luther King Jr. delivered his "I Have a Dream" speech. In 1964, the Civil Rights
Act was passed by the American Congress. In 1986, more than 1.5 million South African black people went on strike to
protest apartheid. Simultaneously, in the rest of the world, South African
products were being boycotted by an ever-larger number of international
consumers. In the early 1990s, the South African government was forced to
dismantle the legal basis of apartheid and Nelson Mandela was released from
prison. On May 10, 1994, Mandela was sworn as the first black President of South
Africa. Currently, Argentine torturer Cavallo is in jail in Mexico, and Argentine
torturer Oliveira is in jail in Italy. Both are awaiting extradition and will hopefully be
tried for their crimes. In Argentina, more and more high ranked militaries,
including ex-Dictators Videla and Massera, are in jail; they will have to account for
the disappearance of hundreds of children during the last dictatorship
(1976-1983). But since we have the power to make things change, we also have the duty
to do it. Human rights activism is not a choice; it is an obligation for any human
being on this planet. This obligation is written in the Universal Declaration of Human Rights itself. The General Assembly proclaimed the Declaration "as a
common standard of achievement for all people and all nations, to the end that
every individual and every organ of society, keeping this Declaration constantly
in mind, shall strive by teaching and education to promote respect for these
rights and freedoms." It is also our obligation vis-à-vis our ancestors. We owe it
to all the people who gave their time, their energy and often their lives in order to
give us the rights and freedoms we are enjoying now. And, last but not least, we
owe it to our children and the generations to come. As Edmond Burke said: "The
only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." It is
our responsibility, and, I believe, the major reason for our presence on this earth,
to make sure this planet will be, at least slightly, more friendly the day we leave it
than it was the day we arrived on it. Finally, even those who believe that they are under no obligation to defend
other people's rights might want to enter the fight, lest they end up like the
protagonist of Martin Niemoller's poem: First they came for the Communists, and I didn't speak up, because I was not a Communist. Then they came for the Jews,
and I didn't speak up, because I was not a Jew. Then they came for the Catholics, and I didn't speak up, because I was not a Catholic. Then they came for me, and by that time there was no one left to speak up for me.
Separation
Resolution,
a strange word accompanied by separation. You bequeathed me a
white rose last night and a red the buds appropriately symbolic white petals
wrapped close hugging sheltering our care and love
the pristine core in cloistered sanctuary and the red
a vivid burgundyopen and vulnerablereaching out
its petals wings allowing also glimpses inward trust and change so much energy expended love's spectrum
radiating its prism complicated frightening exposed edges
angles sharp
Sweet Dreams
I lay here, and I cannot sleep …
I think it's memories I keep.
I smile … then I find it sad,
we'll never know just what we had!
And like a thief, though not disguised,
our situation, realized … And life goes on, or so it seems …
and now depends on my sweet dreams.
If only sleep would come for me … 'cause here I lay … you're all I see!
For you are here … or I am there … and only one thing can compare.
Before I know, I will awake … and know that life's a 'piece o' cake'.
Fun, and sweet ~ now this is true … the icing comes from loving you!
So, little darlin', come with me … join me in my fantasy.
©1999 ~FParis
Blue
Our hands will never touch, or intertwine, and we will never know what might be true!
I'll never see your eyes look into mine, I'll never see the blue I wanted to …
I needed so much, just to see your face … your blue eyes, smiling ~ with an afterglow. And rhyme or reason never will replace the feelings you have helped me come to know.
I miss you with an ache I can't explain … and here, inside, I know the color blue. The smile on my heart, yes, it remains … and always will, because it still holds you!
©1999 ~FParis

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